I sat with the blue tin on my lap and tried to put everything in order.
The trust came first.
2019\.
Both my parents present.
My mother aware of what she was signing.
Then there were the instructions to Mr. Fenwick.
No contact with me unless something specific happened.
One of those possibilities was the house being sold without Mom's consent.
And now there was the sale itself.
Nineteen days.
My sister had explained that the money was for Mom's care.
I still didn't know how that explanation fit with the trust.
I didn't know whether it fit at all.
I looked across the room.
“Can we go through what my parents actually authorized?”
I wanted to hear the terms.
Not someone's interpretation of them.
Not what my sister believed she had been entitled to do.
What my parents had agreed to.
The distinction mattered to me now in a way it hadn't before.
I had spent too much time listening to explanations after decisions had already been made.
This was different.
The trust had existed before the sale.
The instructions had existed before the sale.
My mother's concerns had existed before the sale.
Those facts didn't prove what my sister had done.
But they showed that the transaction couldn't be understood properly by looking at it alone.
I thought about the new owners.
They had found a hidden letter in the attic.
That discovery was part of why the questions surrounding the house could no longer be ignored.
But I was not going to pretend I understood the contents of that letter before they were established.
I had already made enough assumptions.
I looked down at the tin again.
I wanted every document considered in its proper place.
The trust.
Any authority relating to the property.
The sale.
And the letter.
I wanted to understand what each one actually established.
I didn't want to use one unanswered question as proof of another.
I didn't want anger to do the work that evidence was supposed to do.
That was harder than I expected.
Every time I thought about my sister selling our mother's home, I felt myself moving toward a conclusion.
Then I remembered what I didn't know.
I didn't know the exact terms of the trust.
I didn't know the legal basis used for the sale.
I didn't know whether my mother had approved anything after the trust was signed.
And I didn't know what the letter revealed.
I looked at Mr. Fenwick.
“I need to know what can be established, not just what seems wrong.”
That was what I wanted now.
Not a story that made my sister look guilty.
Not an explanation that made everything seem harmless.
The truth about my mother's decisions.
I thought about my father being present in 2019.
I thought about my mother signing those documents with a clear understanding of them.
And I thought about the possibility that she had later become afraid her wishes would not be respected.
I couldn't settle any of that by guessing.
I had to follow what was documented.
I placed the blue tin more securely on my knees.
For the first time during the conversation, I felt able to separate what I believed from what I could establish.
I still had questions.
A great many of them.
But I knew where I needed to begin.
With the trust my parents had signed.
With my mother's own instructions.
And with evidence of what happened to her house.
Click here to continue reading: PART 9: Mr. Fenwick Finally Opened the Trust Documents, and I Discovered Why Mom Had Been So Afraid of Losing Her House
I Thought My Sister Had Been Handling Mom’s Affairs Until One Conversation Made Me Question Everything I Had Been Told
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