My daughter remarried this year. One weekend, she asked me if I could babysit. I told her, “I’ll watch my grandson anytime.
But not your stepchildren.” She was quiet for a moment. My heart sank when she said, “You either babysit all of them, or none of them.”
I paused, holding the phone tighter than I meant to. “Sweetheart, you know I love Mason.
He’s my grandson. But those other two? They’ve got their own grandma.”
“I know,” she said gently.
“But they’re part of the family now. To me. To Mason.
And if you can’t see that… maybe we need to rethink things.”
That stung more than I expected. Her voice wasn’t angry. Just… sad.
And that’s what hit me the hardest. I told her I needed to think about it. She said okay, but I could hear the disappointment in her voice as she hung up.
I sat at the kitchen table for a long while. Mason had just turned five. I adored that boy more than life itself.
We’d baked cookies together, built snowmen, read bedtime stories. He called me “Nana Bea” and would light up every time I walked through the door. But the other two?
Ellie was seven. Quiet, serious, always clutching some worn-out bunny plush. And Jamal, just nine, full of energy and sarcasm.
They weren’t mine. They didn’t feel like mine. I kept telling myself that.
My daughter, Clara, had married a man named Darren. Nice enough, I guess. Steady job, always polite.
He treated Clara well. Treated Mason like his own. I couldn’t deny that.
But it still felt… off. Like something sacred had shifted. Like I was being asked to love strangers the way I loved my own blood.
A week passed before Clara called again. She didn’t bring up the babysitting. Just asked if I wanted to come over for dinner Sunday.
I said yes. When I got there, Mason ran to me with his usual bear hug. I knelt down to squeeze him back, breathing in that sticky little-kid scent of apple juice and Play-Doh.
He tugged at my hand, pulling me inside. Ellie and Jamal were on the couch. Jamal gave a shy wave.
Ellie didn’t even look up. Clara gave me a quick hug. “Dinner’s almost ready.
We’re making spaghetti.”
I helped set the table. The kids talked about school, about some science project with volcanoes. I chimed in here and there, but mostly I watched.
Mason laughed when Jamal made silly faces. Ellie, who rarely spoke, giggled when Clara accidentally dropped a spoon into the sauce. They didn’t seem like step-anything.
They just seemed… together. After dinner, Clara brought out a photo album. “We had these made after the wedding,” she said, flipping it open.
“Wanted you to see.”
There were pictures of Clara and Darren under a willow tree, Mason grinning with his missing front tooth, Jamal in a suit too big for him, Ellie holding a bouquet almost as big as she was. One picture made me stop. All three kids, arms around each other, laughing like they shared the same soul.
“Do you think they’ll stay close?” I asked. Clara nodded. “They already are.
That’s what makes this work.”
That night, I went home thinking about what it meant to be family. The next time Clara called to ask for a sitter, I hesitated. “I’ll do it,” I said.
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